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Jocelyn Millis's avatar

I watch for unconscious racism in people’s eyes.

I’ll give you an example.

I was waiting for my daughter-in-law after her first post - delivery checkup. I got talking with another mother who had a two day old baby daughter. Her proud mother was there waiting for her first post - delivery checkup too. They were both super friendly and happy for me to see the tiny baby girl.

Five minutes later my daughter-in-law came out of the doctor’s office. My husband moved forward to help her with her coat. I was about to say farewell to the new mother and grandmother before we left when I saw the daughter protectively wrap her baby and pull her away from me. Her mother’s eyes were wide as she stared at my daughter-in-law who was born in the Philippines.

She has beautiful dark brown skin and dark black hair. My granddaughter has brown eyes like her mother and soft light brown skin. Her dark tuft of black hair resembles her mother but its soft texture comes from my blue eyed fair skinned son.

Their eyes showed how threatening they felt my mixed race two day old granddaughter was.

I picked up my coat, turned my back on them and joined my family. There are no words to be said when you see that someone looks upon a baby girl with horror because she has parents of two different races.

Their eyes told me everything I needed to know.

Thank you for explaining this form of racism so clearly Walter.

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WTH Is Going On?! Chris Berrie's avatar

A recent article by Jay Kuo demonstrated that this is true for all bigotry. The article is very dense in complex theories about sexuality. Jay wrote it in response to the GOP’s insistence that there are only two sexes, male and female and their crusade to codify that into law. The article is very dense in complex theories and formulas and made me feel a bit overwhelmed. I consider myself pretty intelligent, but I admit I don’t have a science brain. It made me realize that those who insist there are only two sexes, or who believe in White Supremacy, can’t possibly understand this kind of data. Those who double down on bigotry and racism don’t have the cognitive strength to understand deep data dives. And they’ve been conditioned not to be persistent in pursuing knowledge. It’s so much easier for them to just accept the binary as opposed to the spectrum, rather than do the work to understand the much more complicated scientific facts.

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