I have restocked and reposted your reflections. Wonderfully said offering recognition we were not perfect, breaking a part is painful, yet reimagining a better America for our kids is NOT impossible
Thanks Kathy. There's just that hard moment of recognition when we realize we're entering into another reality. We've got to discard the trauma bonds and embrace the better future.
Your reflections on what blinds us in relationships, especially about your dad, were particularly impactful. I am a retired professor of interpersonal relationships and I am always reminded that even on a national and international level we are human beings and act accordingly. Your piece offers little gems about blinders and why we put them on, shifting expectations post disruption, where empowerment can be felt etc. You never dismiss or trivialize your family's dynamics while at the same time celebrating what emerges. Pearls are made from grinding sand. Muscles get stronger being torn. I have a tattoo on my wrist of a broken heart--with the light shining through--something I did in the aftermath of my divorce. Anyway thanks for putting your self out there.
Thanks so much for reading and for that thoughtful response. I often reflect on the moment my parents' marriage ended because it was such a profound moment of realization. A lot changed for me right then, and it was painful, but there were better things ahead. I'm glad you got through your divorce with strength and light! Best to you!
I appreciate your reimagining a new, better America. It warms my ❤️ and gives me hope for possibilities of love and kindness forging a better way of doing our democracy.
I have restocked and reposted your reflections. Wonderfully said offering recognition we were not perfect, breaking a part is painful, yet reimagining a better America for our kids is NOT impossible
Thanks Kathy. There's just that hard moment of recognition when we realize we're entering into another reality. We've got to discard the trauma bonds and embrace the better future.
Your reflections on what blinds us in relationships, especially about your dad, were particularly impactful. I am a retired professor of interpersonal relationships and I am always reminded that even on a national and international level we are human beings and act accordingly. Your piece offers little gems about blinders and why we put them on, shifting expectations post disruption, where empowerment can be felt etc. You never dismiss or trivialize your family's dynamics while at the same time celebrating what emerges. Pearls are made from grinding sand. Muscles get stronger being torn. I have a tattoo on my wrist of a broken heart--with the light shining through--something I did in the aftermath of my divorce. Anyway thanks for putting your self out there.
Thanks so much for reading and for that thoughtful response. I often reflect on the moment my parents' marriage ended because it was such a profound moment of realization. A lot changed for me right then, and it was painful, but there were better things ahead. I'm glad you got through your divorce with strength and light! Best to you!
This was an interesting way to think about it. Hey, I did a recording of your open letter to MAGA: https://open.substack.com/pub/chrislyke9/p/dear-maga-youre-not-what-you-think?r=4o8dwj&utm_medium=ios
I saw that Chris! Thank you it's wonderful! I also shared it and recommended your publication!
I appreciate your reimagining a new, better America. It warms my ❤️ and gives me hope for possibilities of love and kindness forging a better way of doing our democracy.
I have my days of weakness when I am concerned, but other days I'm hopeful.